Mother’s Day 2026

Yesterday we took my wife to Suffolk. One of the places she wanted to go to was The Westleton Crown. We have been here a few times before and loved it. But it appears to have changed hands. The food there is good, but the reason we returned was because the food used to be exceptional.  It was a lovely day out for her, my son the dog and me, but it is one I doubt we will repeat. 

The Last Voyage of the Demeter

For my research into role playing, I watched this film.  I run three campaigns and this offered me the chance to learn for two of them, one being The Curse Of Strahd, featuring one of the most famous vampires in roleplaying, the other being a journey to the Isle of Dread.

Was it an enjoyable film?  Yes.  Would I watch it again?  No.  While the Guardian rated it below average, I would disagree, it is an average film.  It could have been better, but it could have been worse and it was not.  

An early Mothers Day and my views on Iran

First of all, family.

We went down to London to see my mother for Mother’s Day.  We were to meet my brother, but due to a mixup with times, that was not possible. We were almost late due to issues on the A12, but got there in good time. While my daughter was not there, my Mum was very happy to see my son.  My wife had bought her a selection of gifts which my Mum loved. The food was good, parking was available around the corner and the dog loved it as well. 

I don’t know if the traffic would have been worse if The Epstein War was not taking place. It was something my Mum did want to discuss, even mentioning that a group of young men, who came into it, might be sent to fight in it.

Which brings me to the next topic, The Epstein War. While prices go up, it will cause harm to our economy. Living in Colchester, we heard some helicopter activity from the nearby base and my wife and I hope that this does not mean we are to help. Trump is an unreliable ally. While the first casualty of war is the truth, Trump is notorious for being ignorant about facts, and lying about them if the facts are inconvenient. An example of this is Trump blaming Iran for the murder of schoolgirls and their rescuers early in this one sided war. 

In addition to this, Trump has stated that NATO allies would not come to defend the USA, even though the only nation that was invoked Article Five, is the USA, and allies heeded the call. 

Once made aware of this, he lied, stating that NATO forces did not engage on the front, a comment he has since been forced to backtrack on. 

Trump has since stated that the UK only joins wars once the US has won them.  After that, he has called for the UK (and other nations) to send warships to help get oil out of The Gulf. 

Ignoring the ethics of joining in a hugely illegal war, Iran may be able to overcome or bypass any naval escorts with huge waves which overwhelm the defenders.  I don’t like the regime in Iran, not just for the way it exports terror, but also for the way it murders its own people. But in this conflict, Israel and the USA are in the wrong, and if anything, I back Iran in its call for compensation as a condition to end the war. 

The oldest profession should have more safeguards

Yesterday, I watched this video.  It is about prostitution, a subject I have discussed many times before.  

My view remains the same, sex work, ideally, should be safe legal and rare.  I suspect it will never be rare, but it should be safe and legal.  It should not involve human trafficking, coercion should not be present, and support to help anyone involved in it leave it, if they wish to do so, should be available.  And that also includes brothels run by women for women. 

I am under no illusions about the darker side of the profession, but this video is worth watching.       

The right to protest vs intimidation

I have just seen atrocious behaviour by protestors intimidating an MP.  I have posted before about the right to protest, then about how freedom of expression should not be inhibited by protest.  But this is a different matter. 

As many of you know, I am considered a transphobe by many as I do not consider a transman to be a man, or a transwoman to be a woman. But I would never support the action in the video.  Such toxicity and intimidation should face punishment by the law just as it has in the past.  

Trump and the Epstein files

The documents of allegations of Trump and an underage teenager have been published. But Trump will probably get away with it thanks to people focusing on him bombing Iran.

Just remember the timeline.

In a June 2024 interview with Fox News, Trump talked about releasing the Epstein files, but did talk about “the phony stuff” it might contain. 

In June 2025, Elon Musk tweeted that Trump featured in The Epstein files. The tweet has since been deleted. 

In November 2025, Trump was forced to release the files in an increasingly rare show of support by both parties. 

Just before the latest attacks on Iran, reports of missile files of allegations linking Trump to improper conduct with an underage teenager were released. 

Then the not-a-war started, which has worked to divert the attention of most of the world.

And now the files are visible to all, in a redacted manner. But I doubt many will talk about this as the bombing of Iran will get more attention, which means that the objective of the conflict has been met. 

Skrufts

Our dog was cheated out of third place! She took part in Skrufts at the Prettyfields vineyard. There were several categories and she entered Waggiest Tail and Prettiest dog (for girl dogs). With her beard, I wanted to enter her into the most handsome dog, but was banned from doing so.  She did not deserve to win any, but should have got bronze for wagging her tail. As for the prettiest dog, a small girl was judge and picked the Pomeranian in a sparkling coat.  I did try to influence her by getting her to stroke Leia, but she declined the offer to give her a treat, but others cottoned on to my ploy and copied me afterwards!