Can a woman have a willy?

To start off this post, in my opinion, no.  

There are many gender identities, but my view is that a woman cannot have a penis, however a trans-woman can. As I have posted before, I do not think that it is right, or polite, to misgender someone. Many will consider me rude and wrong for refusing consider India Willoughby to be a woman, but I do consider her to be a transgender woman, not as JK Rowling as tweeted, a man.  I have tried to debate this, but sadly ended up blocked (repeatedly). My views on this have evolved with time and I will summarise them.

Just because you identify as something does not mean you are it. Rachel Dolezal identified as being black, despite having two white parents.  Very few people accept the way she identifies herself as correct. 

Other than in schools, the use of toilets by someone who identifies as a different gender is fine. The only time I have seen genitalia in toilets was using the urinals as a child (as an adult, we do not look). However, if women are exposed to male genitalia in that situation, the perpetrator should face the full weight of the law.

It should be up to each sport to decided if transgender competitors can compete based on the gender they identify with. 

Communal changing areas should be subject to segregation based on genitalia.  I have seen to shops where changing areas are unisex and there was an attendant to ensure no theft took place who also would have been a witness if anything untoward happened.

No sex offender with a penis should be in a female jail.

A child who wishes to socially transition at school without informing their parents should be allowed to do so, but just as this applies to a teenager seeking an abortion, that child should be encouraged to involve their parents. But, that child should still use facilities based on biological sex. 

I thought The Newsagents covered this really well.  Not everyone does. But as has been stated before, I am transphobic for having my views. But if anyone is happy to debate this, I am happy to do so on BlueSky.