Self-identification sports and changing rooms

Our local boys grammar school has a mixed 6th form and an issue with Rape Culture and Sexual Harassment. Should we make it easier for the minority of men to harass the young women in Safe Spaces by misusing self-identification because the majority will not do so?  If so, should this apply to safe spaces like changing rooms and showers in schools?  That seems to be the call by some who argue that JK Rowling is a transphobe for raising concerns about this.

More students have spoken out about the "toxic" culture at Colchester Royal Grammar School.

Scarlett Mansfield wrote a blog post about her experiences https://t.co/oMRQ6miPzI pic.twitter.com/R7wMuXOTVZ

— BBC Essex (@BBCEssex) May 20, 2021

I bring up the issue again after watching the victory of England over Austria last night. Women's football is different to that of Men's game and I did think back to a video about Tans-inclusion in sport, as to if they should include Transwomen to improve the chances of success.  For many sports, being born male gives advantages. As seen with Isazc Henig, this is not always the case. But women can end up being injured as a result of being up against someone born male. 

I know that I am considered by many to be a Transphobe as I consider TransWomen to be TransWomen, TransMen to be TransMen, Women to be Women and Men to be Men.  I define a woman as someone without a Y chromosome unless that individual identifies as something else. Likewise a man is someone with a Y chromosome, again unless they identify as something else. I do think that sex is real but I do think that in many cases, those who are Trans should be treated as such. I used to think that toilets should be based on genitalia (a view that I still feel should apply to prisons), but there are those with a penis who have lived as women for some time and so long as they are not known to be a threat, I do think that they should be allowed in many areas for women.

PMQ's and memories or the lack of them

I have just finished watching PMQs with my daughter.  She is considering studying politics when she is a Sixth Former so I took a break from work to watch it.  She became a bit animated when doing so, mainly due to the distortion of the truth that took place.  She was not happy that clapping is not allowed in Parliament and also that Boris Johnson can lie in Parliament, but cannot be called a liar.

The issue of groping came up, but the simple fact is that Boris Johnson has a poor memory when it comes to allegations involving this.  Not just with Chris Pincher, but if people remember correctly, Boris himself was accused of groping Charlotte Edwardes but stated that he had no memory of the lunch when this was meant to have occurred.  Boris himself has said that he cannot change, and this seems to be the case considering that Charlotte Edwards was not the only woman to accuse Boris Johnson of the same. 

I believe her when it comes to Boris and his hands, not just her, but both the women.    

I feel sorry for Will Quince

It is not often that I feel sorry for my MP.  I do feel sorry for the loss of his child that his wife and he had to go through.  I do not agree with all the abuse he is subject to and I do not think that it is right, that for the safety of him and his family, that he has to keep his address secret.  

I do feel sorry for the way that he was sent out to defend the Prime Minister, who has been caught out with yet another lie.  He put himself in the line of fire to defend the allegations that Boris Johnson had been told about Chris Pincher and the allegations that Boris Johnson was aware that he had been groping people and how finds himself in a position where he was lied to.  His quote was 'I don't believe, given the shocking nature of what I've read about over the past few days, the Prime Minister or any employer if they'd known about this, would have appointed Chris Pincher as Deputy Chief Whip.'  Remember that Chris Pincher was there to ensure that MP's behaved themselves and did not act in a manner that would endanger the way the public perceived the Conservative Party in his role in the Whips office.  

I do not trust Boris Johnson on most things.  I do admire the way that he has helped Ukraine in Putins War, but that is about it.  I knew Boris lied over and over again before he was elected as Prime Minister, and I, like many in the nation, have witnessed him lying again and again.  I know that it is the nature of the Scorpion to sting the Frog.  Will Quince has found this out the hard way. 

Elvis

Back at work again today. Afterwards, my wife, daughter and I watched Elvis.  While not a cinematic masterpiece, it was a good film.  We did ask my son if he wanted to join us, but he declined after initially accepting the offer.  

It was obvious that it would not be able to do justice to his life, for that, a much longer film would be needed and with this in mind, I would consider this a work of fiction based on his life.  I liked the way it addressed racial injustice in the USA as well as the dangers of drug use.  It did gloss over a lot of his life, including the age that Priscilla Presley was when they first met.  

Overall, I am glad I watched it, though I see no need to watch it again.

Science Sunday

My son has got help from my daughter today with his revision.  My wife helped a bit as well, but my daughter discussed what she had been taught about what she would get marks for.  The first part of this was biology and I have to say how impressed I am with her patience.  My son can be challenging when he puts his mind to it and while she was sharp at times, I suspect my wife would have been sharper and I would have been even worse at helping him to learn.  After this was chemistry and he responded to her more, and then physics, though my wife also helped at this point.  She did get paid by me, her earning it most on the first part, but his improvement may have been down to her, though I am aware, that he may have been the actual reason. 

I did get to go for a walk with my son this evening.  My wife and daughter watched Love Island while my son went for a walk with Leia so that he could buy himself a  milkshake.  I do hope that we get to have more of these walks. 

Ghostbusters: Afterlife

Busy day today.  A driving trip to look at some items we are interested in is not ideal on a day with a rail strike, but my wife and I did it and only had one argument doing so.  Road works and train strikes do not make for an even temper!  We did get to have a great lunch though.  I drank the odd cosNOpolitan but did try a Movie Star Martini as I as the nominated driver for the way home.

My son is preparing for his end of year exams and my daughter has finished hers so we went for a walk at Gosbecks with Leia.  Sadly, my son does not tend to enjoy such walks but Leia loved it.  My daughter revelled in her freedom and ran about with Leia, something I rarely do myself when I take her for walks.  My method of getting her to run is by throwing balls for her to fetch in the back garden.  In addition to the great company, it was amazing weather.

After this, we watched Ghostbusters: Afterlife.  I enjoyed it.  I had wanted to watch it in the cinema, but Omicron put an end to that as we avoided public spaces for a while over that time.  I would have had no issues had I paid to watch it with the family in the cinema.  Unlike Jurassic World Dominion, which my wife wants to watch on the big screen but I think that the plot and direction will be as bad as the previous two films.  

The rights of a State vs the nation

Roe vs Wade is no more in the USA.  States will be able to make decisions about abortion rather than having this view imposed on a nation wide basis.

First, this will harm women much more than men, and this will disproportionately affect those on low incomes who will find it harder to bring up a child.  Those who are richer will find it easier to travel to a state where abortion is legal and also have the funds to defend themselves if challenged in court about being accused of having an abortion.

Second, if the nation cannot make rules on abortion, what about matters like voting rights and equal marriage?  Women in same sex relationships in general will not be affected by this not counting women who cheat on a partner or who are raped.  I do wonder if the religious right will act on this later.

I am still of the view that those in favour of banning abortion are pro-birth rather than being pro-life. Maternity pay is optional in much of America and the support for mothers when it comes to childcare is poor as well.  And don’t get me started (again) on school shooting’s.