A blog mostly about my family. Though I also rant about other things, work, music, films etc.
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Tuesday, 1 April 2025
Free speech, the White House correspondents' dinner, Amber Ruffin and deportations
Tuesday, 25 March 2025
The Best People
Sorry, I do try to ignore the Orangutan in The White House, but this story has to be commented on. Top Trump cabinet members added The Atlantic editor to a chat discussing strikes on Houthis and did not seem to realise until he shared the story. The person who added the Jeffrey Goldberg, the editor of the Atlantic magazine, may have been Michael Waltz, Trump’s national security adviser. Though Pete Hegseth is being touted by some as the moron who did so.
In the last Trump administration, many of The Best People went to jail. The incompetence of this administration was to be expected considering the backgrounds of the people he has appointed, but this level of stupidity may be hard to beat. But I suspect that they will do their best. And we have almost four more years of this for them to do so.
Sunday, 23 March 2025
Mississippi Burning
Before my daughter left for her travels we watched films together. My son tends not to watch films with me, instead we watched TV shows and are watching Fresh of the Boat. Anyway, she is back and we watched a film together.
We had been for a walk earlier in the morning, taking the dog to Gosbecks (Leia gets very impatient if we do not park quickly) on a different route to normal. During the walk, she talked about her time travelling and one of the topics discussed was The Vietnam War. So when we got back I suggested we watched Platoon before it leaves Amazon Prime. While searching for it, I noted that Mississippi Burning is also due to leave and mentioned that it was a film worth watching. So she decided to watch that instead. I have watched this many years before. Watching it now has a special relevance considering what is happening in the USA. So many of the issues it brings up could be issues faced today with the resurgence of racism and white nationalism as well as the way Trump has views on how the law should be.
Saturday, 22 March 2025
She is back!
My daughter is back after almost two months away. The dog is very happy, as are the rest of us. There was a worry yesterday when we work up to this message. I relaxed more when I found out that the airport itself was not on fire and I was confident that the airport would be open the next day and that she would get back, but there was always a worry.
I was under the mistaken impression that as the volcano was to the east of Bali, that flights to Singapore, which is to the west of Bali, would be unaffected, but again this was not the case as some flights were cancelled.
We all missed her, but the dog has expressed it the most. Anyway, she is asleep on the sofa so I need to wake her up so she can sleep in her own room,
Friday, 21 March 2025
The oldest profession should be legal
As I have stated before, I do not want any woman (or man) to have no choice but to resort to working as a prostitute, but like it or not, for some men and women, this is how they earn money. What I want is a system to support sex workers, so that they can get the help and support to work in a safe manner, but more importantly, the help and support to get out of the trade if needed. Making sex work legal may also help to reduce sex trafficking as sex workers would be given rights.
Thursday, 20 March 2025
Abortion and Savita Halappanavar
Wednesday, 19 March 2025
The Railway Tavern Kelvedon
My wife and I had a pleasant afternoon here. I had been for a walk with Nick and on the way back, my wife, who was driving back home asked about lunch together. We discussed different options. It being a sunny day, one option was to eat in the garden after getting some food locally, but we settled on going somewhere new.
The location was pleasant, or would have been but for the ducks, or rather Leia, our dog, wanting to kill the ducks. I enjoyed my food, but my wife chose poorly and did not enjoy hers as much. But parking was easy and I would return again.
The best bit was spending time with my wife though.
Tuesday, 18 March 2025
Reforming welfare
The government want to cut welfare and reduce the cost to the state of supporting people.
I agree and disagree with them. In my job, I do come across a few who can work and do not seem to want to. But most of those who are on benefits need them, either because they are in low paid jobs, or because they are not able to work.
Poverty increased under the Conservatives, not just for those out of work, but for those working as well. Yes, the government is right in that we should be helping people to come off benefits and back into work, and yes the government is right in that too many need “encouragement” to do so. BUT the Conservatives oversaw a huge rise in Foodbanks, and too many people have health issues preventing them from working properly. While waiting lists are coming down, it is hard to get people back into work when it takes so long to have health issues (that limit the work they do) addressed.
What I would like to see is a Universal Basic Income for adults born in the UK.
Monday, 17 March 2025
The pub quiz
Nick and I presented our local pub quiz last night. My wife did not attend as she was tired from a weekend of spring cleaning. Sadly I did not present it as well as I would have liked. In general the quiz was too hard, something I will need to rectify if we get to present it again.
Sunday, 16 March 2025
Captive
There are several films with this name. This film was made in 2023 and is not worth going out of your way to watch.
Friday, 14 March 2025
The look of love
Another interesting film. Not one I would watch again, and one where it would have been more interesting to have a female perspective when it came to making it, considering the topic relates to pornography (and related matters).
The Guardian rated it three out of five, and I would say that is fair as is the description of it being “shallow but watchable” which is surprisingly accurate.
I am not sure that anyone who is not interested in the area of Soho, or remembers the influence that Paul Raymond had with publishing. It is amazing to see so many British stars making the film. So, yes, shallow, but watchable.
Thursday, 13 March 2025
King Kong
Watching this last night brought back memories of when I had watched King Kong before. I like this film but never got round to watching it on the big screen, probably because my daughter was only a few months old. I do remember talking to a friend of my wife who was upset when "the monkey died" (which was my words) but I had not watched the film and did not realise just how good it was.
Yes, the film has some stereotypes which would probably not be in film now, especially as I suspect that the inhabitants of the pacific ocean do not look like the natives on Skull Island. And the CGI is dated. But it is by far the best of the more recent King Kong films.
Yes, even with it being so long, I would watch it again, but if I had to make a choice, I would watch it until the capture of King Kong.
Anyway, while I do not want to focus on the insanity of Trump for the next four years, this is a clip I had to share, because it made me laugh so much! It is the best line on this tariffs that I have heard.
Monday, 10 March 2025
Picture This
As a family (without my daughter) we watched this. I did not think that I was going to like it as I did not think that it flowed well at the beginning, but it improved. The ending of the film was predictable, but the journey to that point was not the usual one that a RomCom takes. Needless to say, not everyone likes it, but the three of us did. I would say that the weakness was the predictable love interest, but the strength of the film is some of the other characters.
Next to Arsenal. What a game. We should have scored more than the amazing goal that Rice did score, but we were also lucky not to concede loads as well. We are not going to win the title, and I doubt that we will win in Europe, but I think that we can beat Real Madrid, if we face them in the next round.
Sunday, 9 March 2025
A Quiet Place: Day One
Saturday, 8 March 2025
An Alliance With China?
Novara Media have done a piece on how Europe should consider getting closer to China now that America and its America First policy is leaving Europe to fed for itself.
It forgets several things. One is the way that China has been accused of engaging in genocide.
The other relates to the concerns that China has been linked to the damaging of undersea cables in the Baltic.
Europe needs to look to itself, not China when it comes to ensuring that Russia does not invade yet more nations.
Friday, 7 March 2025
Star Trek: Section 31
It is not often that I come across a film that is so bad, but it is. It has some plus points, it has good special effects and it means that Star Trek V; The Final Frontier is no longer the worst Star Trek film.
The plot was predictable, the characters were unimaginative, but the worst bit, was how they ruined the character of the evil Terran Empress Philippa Georgiou Augustus Iaponius Centarius. The series Star Trek Discovery has lost its appeal to me, but while that lacks inspiration, it is not awful like this film.
Section 31 in Star Trek is known for amazing operatives, which means that they would not have a moron on the team, like the film had. Also when it come to how Philippa Georgiou came to rule the Terran Empire at the beginning of the film, that made no sense when you see how career advancement takes place in Mirror Mirror and the other Star Trek episodes which feature the Mirror universe.
I made a mistake in watching this film. Take my advice and do not watch it.
Thursday, 6 March 2025
The Gorge
A very disappointing film. I liked the horror themes in it, how The Hollow Men would come and how the land in The Gorge looked, but that was about it.
The film starts well, but rapidly starts to fail. Normally, I do not include spoilers in my review, but I am going to have them now so I can get my rant over. The character is dropped away from The Gorge, making their way to the place that they are meant to guard. But, when there, they have food, and have to work to restock ammunition. Which leads to the question of how the ammunition gets there. Somewhere that well stocked will need people to stock it up, which means that they fly the supplies in, and if so, why not fly the replacement guards in.
Also at the end, when the characters escape by getting up the cavern wall, why do the defences not kill them the way they kill The Hollow Men?
There are very few reasons to watch this, and considering that there are much better films out there, watch them instead.
Wednesday, 5 March 2025
Who needs a striker?
I should have posted yesterday about how Arsenal may not need Saka as much. Nwaneri is amazing. While I do not think that he is as good as Saka, he is almost as good. But Saka is 23, while Nwaneri is only 17. Both should improve as they get older, but Saka has been doing this and while Nwaneri should do the same, Arsenal has seen talent not reach its potential before and I hope that Nwaneri learns from the mistakes of those before him without repeating them.
Anyway, what an awesome result. For those, like me who missed it, the highlights are on the links below. I would favour playing Real Madrid in the next round as they are more likely to play football against us, which means we have more of a chance to beat them.
And just for the record, I do think that we need to play with a striker.
Sunday, 2 March 2025
This weekend
Yesterday we took my son to London for a treat. He had wanted to go to a particular restaurant there and do some other things. As the restaurant was not dog friendly we had to take Leia to the dog sitter before we left. The drive down was interesting due to fog, but that cleared up when we were in London.
We returned to Maltby Street market and had some breakfast before taking him to the shops he wanted to go to. We made it to the restaurant in good time and had an amazing meal. We all loved the chicken, but our views diverged when it came to other dishes. We also got to have an interesting cocktail (mocktail for me) before our lunch. My Mum was not happy that we did not see her, but there was no time as after Lunch, we took my son to Spitalfields market where he loves to shop.
Today, we rested, though my son was working for his A-Levels. Sadly I have come down with a viral infection so I was not able to do the long walk I usually do on a Sunday. Fingers crossed that I will be better for tomorrow!
Friday, 28 February 2025
The failure of diplomacy involving Ukraine will benefit Putin
Well that was an interesting meeting. The video analysis is one I disagree with in that I think that Vance made things worse rather than was trying to make things better. It is a shame that so much has been thrown away after Macron and Starmer appeared to get Trump onside when it comes to the conflict.
I suspect that the consequence of this is that aid from the USA to Ukraine will end. If this includes stopping Ukraine accessing Starlink, Ukraine will not be able to defend its borders properly.
We have already seen the US side with Russia over this conflict in the United Nations.
The west is going to have to step up to replace artillery shells being sent to Ukraine. On the plus side, doing so may create more jobs and stimulate growth.
Tuesday, 25 February 2025
Cutting foreign aid
Starmer has announced cuts to foreign aid, this being to allow the UK to increase defence spending. It is a horrible decision to make, but it is the least worst of the options.
We cannot rely on Trump to defend us, something I have posted about before. He has shown that he is willing to ignore the Budapest Memorandum, an agreement signed to get Ukraine to disarm its nuclear weapons with a promise to respect and maintain its borders. His willingness to sell out Ukraine and follow, the line of Putin that Russia is not the aggressor shows that he is willing to ignore reality.
This means that in my opinion, the UK should move to a position where it is not dependent on the US. And that means no more US equipment. So instead of relying on F35’s, we need to produce our own fighters, like the Typhoon. We will need to work with Europe on GPS navigation and an alternative to Starlink.
Trump is hoping that the USA will benefit from the increase if defence spending. If we are to buy from abroad, it should be from nations like France, Poland and South Korea. We need more independence from the USA.
Monday, 24 February 2025
Tik Toc and Darwin awards
Today, I learned about a trend called Vabbing. Thanks that is to the video which I have attached to this post. I know that people are under pressure to perform, but this surprised me. It does make me think if the way to eliminate the world of gullible people is to flood Tik Toc with fatal fads...
Sunday, 23 February 2025
I should be very, very angry
We are back at home. My son has college tomorrow and we spent some time watching Fresh Off The Boat together. My daughter, in Vietnam is looking after some of her travelling companions who have come down ill with gastroenteritis. Hopefully she will not get it.
Football, Arsenal lost against West Ham, which means I might be seeing a lot of West Ham fans this week. We do not do well when we play before our rivals, this being no exception. Watching the highlights, I did not see the vigour that Arsenal normally play with. Which meant that while I was disappointed, I was not very very angry.
Friday, 21 February 2025
Hambleton Bakery
Today is our last full day in Rutland. After breakfast I took our dog for a long walk. I had taken her on a bit of it yesterday. Today I took her on the rest of it. She loved it. Yesterday she came back a bit muddy but today there was a lot more mud. I guess that is what comes of the longer walk. My wife was not too happy though.
Afterwards we went for a drive to get some lunch. My wife drove us to Oakham and while we did did somewhere to eat lunch, we could not eat there due to the parking restrictions. My wife and son found a record shop and may have bought a record. I took Leia to explore the town and started to explore Oakham castle, not that it is much of a castle, but the history that I did get to read was really interesting.
We returned to the Hambleton bakery which we had visited the day before. Then there was a lot more choice, but we arrived earlier yesterday. Today the first two dishes my wife wanted were sold out, but my son and I got what we wanted. After that it was a trip to a farm shop and then a drive to a supermarket to get items to clean our messy dog.
Our son is enjoying having a room to himself, and actually had loads of fun in the front of the car while my wife was driving. We have not heard from our daughter but we know she is alive as she responded to a message on the family WhatsApp group. She had been unwell earlier this week and we gave her some advice, but I presume that she is now better and is enjoying Vietnam, hence the silence from her.
Fingers crossed that dinner is a better experience at the hotel today!
Thursday, 20 February 2025
The art of the deal
Now for Trump. He states that he believes Putin when Putin says he wants an end to the war. That is true, but Putin wants the capitulation of Ukraine, something he might get. With the relations between Trump and Zelenskyy worsening, the question arises as to if Ukraine will be invaded after all. Trump stopping aid to Ukraine is one thing, ending the sanctions on Russia though will be even more damaging. We saw what a great deal Trump agreed with the Taliban in 2020 about Afghanistan, a great deal that is for The Taliban. Back then he did not include the Afghan government in the talks, just as he has not included Ukraine in these talks. Based on how well the last deal went, we can expect Ukraine to be speaking Russian in the next few years.
Wednesday, 19 February 2025
Does The Manchurian Candidate think that the US started a war with Japan by attacking them at Pearl Harbour?
There have been many on the left and the right who have argued that Putin is acting in response to the actions of the west, notably NATO expansion. I have discussed how this is wrong before, but am happy to do so again. If any agreement was made about NATO expansion, the former nations of The Warsaw Pact would have become nervous once Russia liberated Transnistria from Moldova. Appeasement did not work then with Russia moving to liberate Abkhazia afterwards. NATO expansion occurred after this, and there was a few years of peace before Russia liberated South Ossetia. The policy of appeasement lasted until Russia ‘helped’ Crimea liberate itself in early 2014, Russia starting the war in The Donbas afterwards. During this conflict Russia shot down MH17 by accident but then denied doing so.
Tuesday, 18 February 2025
When Donald Trump complained about Mexico sending rapists to the US, I did not know that is because he wanted (alleged) rapists imported from Romania!
Apparently, Donald Trump wants the Tate brothers to be free to travel away from Romania. I doubt he means that the extradition warrant that the UK has against them is to be enforced.
Sunday, 16 February 2025
Leicester City vs Arsenal 2025
What a match. I am hoping that we finish second. Will I am hoping that we win the league, but I doubt that will happen. It is nice that we have more than three points between us and the chasing pack, but we have thrown away leads before and can give up this gap.
Saturday, 15 February 2025
Bridget Jones: Mad About the Boy
My wife and I watched this for our Valentines date. She had been out earlier to listen to an author she likes and from the sounds of it had a great time there.
As for the film, once I got over the face of Bridget Jones being almost fixed, I enjoyed it. I know that this will not appeal to some, but if you liked the other three films, you will like this. I know that I have missed out on some of the jokes as I cannot remember much of the second and third films, but I am sure my wife and I will catch up on them.
It made me appreciate being a father, being grateful for what I have, and yes, it did make me cry. Yes it had flaws, an example being how quick it was for the school trip to take place, breaking and entering into a barn, and how it snows in London (yet rarely does). But this film is in essence a fairy tale, and it is a very good one for adults. I am glad I watched it. It made me laugh, it made me cry and it made me grateful for what I have.
Tuesday, 11 February 2025
Brexit failing the UK
I was surprised to find that the inheritance tax dodging Jeremy Clarkson has spoken out against Brexit. I understand that many had fallen for the lies told about Brexit, an example being when Nigel Farage talked about how we could have a soft Brexit negotiating a deal like Norway or Switzerland.
Like him, I find it hard to understand how people can say Brexit has been a benefit to the UK. In fact, Brexit has been so bad, that many parties in Europe who had advocated leaving the EU, now do not do so (openly at least). A big example of this is with the National Front in France. And the reason for this is because those in Europe can see how we in the UK have harmed ourselves by voting to impose economic sanctions on ourselves.
Monday, 10 February 2025
Illegal immigrants do the work that others are not allowed to do
Immigration and the stance of Labour towards illegal immigration is finally in the news today. I was listening to The Newsagents about this and decided that Labour have gone too far. The person being interviewed said that immigration is unmanageable.
It is right to listen to voters about immigration, it is right to ensure that bad employers do not exploit illegal immigrants. The RECORD numbers being deported should be publicised more, action on rogue employers should be taken and made public.
But, taking the Reform line that immigration is unmanageable is wrong and cannot be excused.
Sunday, 9 February 2025
My son is taller than me
Yesterday was a sad day for me. It was the day my son became taller than me.
For a little while, there has been a debate as to who is taller, but it is now settled. A few weeks ago, we met school friends of my wife and the consensus was I was taller, just.
Now I have to angle my neck (slightly) to look at him when we stand next to each other. Needless to say, he is happier than I am with this.
Saturday, 8 February 2025
Farage and the NHS
Nigel Farage has stated that he wants to end the NHS. Let us look at an alternative…
Friday, 7 February 2025
Has Elon damaged the TESLA brand?
My wife took a TESLA on a test drive a few years ago, and did not like it. Friends of mine have refused to consider a TESLA thanks to Elon Musk, and they have been proven right as his politics have become more and more extreme.
Wednesday, 5 February 2025
Are we really going to remove Christians from The Gaza Strip?
Christians have lived in the Gaza Strip and from what I can understand, Donald Trump wants them to be removed and the land to be given to Israel. I understand that he does not care about the Muslim population of The Gaza Strip, but I am surprised that he wants to evict the Christian population, and also that his plans are supported by Christians in the USA.
I also wait to see what stance Trump and his supporters have towards the Christian population of The West Bank. Jewish extremists want them removed. Will Trump allow them to be removed as well?
Keir Starmer ate my hamster
The simple fact is that haters are going to hate. And Starmer is going to be hated by a lot of people, unless he can show that he has changed our great nation for the better.
He is hated by those on the right, that being before Musk joined in with this. And he is hated by those on the left as well. Needless to say, there are those who are going to love a book which sticks the knife into him. I will admit that he should communicate better. Labour has done a lot when it comes to immigration, which is not publicised as much as it can be. Labour has ended many strikes which were harming our nation. Hopefully, these changes will help bring about the economic growth our nation needs.
Tuesday, 4 February 2025
Brexit and the man who sold it to us
Driving into work today, I started to listen to his man telling us about the importance of not being too close to Europe. He is the one who sold us Brexit. And Brexit has been such a disaster for us, that parties in France who wanted a Frexit, have had to change their mind on this. In Holland, the Far Right have had to pull back about Nexit as well. Basically, if Brexit was so good, other nations would want to follow us. And they don't.
With Reform UK doing well in the polls, I think that they should be shown up for what they are. The architects of Brexit, which has failed our nation.
We should focus on what Nigel Farage wants for Britain, an example of which is a Free Trade Agreement with the USA (he said so in the interview), which would harm our farmers. Farmers which Farage says he wants to protect. We should remind people about how free trade with Trump would mean allowing the US greater access to the NHS. Just a reminder, the US healthcare system and how it fails so many is an integral part of Breaking Bad and why the character turns to making drugs. It is the inspiration for the book (and later film) The Rainmaker, and of course the film John Q. Remind people of what Farage wants, and then they can decide if they want to vote for him.
Monday, 3 February 2025
Trump, NATO funding and Article 5
There appears to be a view that Trump would defend NATO nations in the event that US support was needed.
I think that it is insane to rely on him. But, saying that, I think that the threat of invasion from Russia is low in the next few years, considering how many casualties Russia has sustained in Ukraine. My issue is not if Trump would defend Europe (I do not think that he would), but more importantly, will US presidents who follow him decide to go along his populist line.
Article 5 provides that if a NATO Ally is the victim of an armed attack, each & every other member of the Alliance will consider this act of violence as an armed attack against all members & will take the actions it deems NECESSARY to assist the Ally attacked.Sunday, 2 February 2025
Even Havertz scored!
What a game! The team did really well. I will be honest, I feared the worst. We have not had the best record so far, but we won! I can go to bed, which will please my wife as I have been shouting while watching the highlights.
Saturday, 1 February 2025
And They're Off!
We woke up early today to take my daughter to the airport for her two months of travelling in Asia. As I type this, she is on a flight to Singapore. I think the dog has taken it the best out of all of us, but Leia has already been looking for my daughter around the house.
My son went though him missing her before, I have been more emotional in the past few days before she went, and it hit my wife at the airport itself. The photo is what she sent to us from the plane before take off.
We all have our fingers crossed that she enjoys herself and returns safely.
Friday, 31 January 2025
Flo & Joan - A Song for Anti-Vaxxers
Yesterday, vaccination was in the media gain, thanks to Trump and his picks for people to run the USA. I was talking about this with my daughter.
She had not seen this video. So we watched it together last night. I am going to miss her as she travels next month. I did not really appreciate it, until last night and then she got loads of hugs, today as well. I think I am irritating my wife more than my daughter now with how much I am going to miss her.
Monday, 27 January 2025
Learning from history
Today was a day to remember from history. Sadly, at times, it seems that the wrong lessons have been learned, an example of which is when Hamas decided to record the murder of Israeli civilians to remind Israel about the Holocaust.
On a more personal note, the rise of the far right across the west, with people like Musk trying to make it more acceptable, is another reason why we should never forget what the forces of hatred and intolerance did in the past. I do not want to be sent to a camp in the future.
Sunday, 26 January 2025
It was not a red card
Arsenal won a game yesterday. With our injuries, the win was more important than normal, even more so considering we should not have had a man sent off. I know that we are not going to win the title, but finishing second is better than third.
As for the family, yesterday my son and daughter went for a dog walk together. It is the first time my son has joined us and Leia loved it. She loves to walk, and loved Gosbecks which is where we took her, but loves it even more if several of us walk with her. Hopefully, when my daughter travels next week, my son will keep me company on these walks.
Saturday, 25 January 2025
Elon Musk and fascism
There is an argument that too many people on the left call those they disagree with, fascist. I agree with this and for a while, I felt that people like Rory Stewart were wrong to call people like Elon Musk fascist. And then Musk gave that salute. Twice. He knew what he did. He knew it would get people talking about it. And that was the straw that broke me.
In the UK, he has supported Tommy Robinson, famously calling out Nigel Farage because Stephen Yaxley-Lennon is too toxic for him. In Germany he has been supporting the AfD. I am not sure I would consider him to be racist (I have suspicions), but he does seem to be suffering from Islamophobia.
Politics has become more right wing in the UK with Reform UK doing well in the polls. We have seen what has happened in America where they voted an adulterous abuser of women in the office of President over a woman. And I fear that Germany is going to go the same way as Austria and Italy.
So, Rory Stewart, I was wrong about Elon Musk, and you were right.