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Friday, 30 December 2022
Your Christmas or Mine?
Thursday, 29 December 2022
Greta Thunberg knocks out Andrew Tate
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— Greta Thunberg (@GretaThunberg) December 28, 2022
Wednesday, 28 December 2022
I bought a Russian advent calendar. Every time you open a window an oligarch falls out.
In September, I made a post about Russians dying in strange circumstances. This has continued and the latest deaths are of Dmitry Zelenov who became unwell, fell down some stairs and sustained critical injuries while in a costal city in France. Alexander Buzakov, a shipyard chief died with no cause known at present, Vladimir Bydanov died in his room in India surrounded by empty wine bottles and his travelling companion Pavel Antov later fell out of window to his death.
Also, General Alexei Maslov, 69, a former commander of Russian ground forces with close ties to Ukraine died “suddenly” the day after Vladimir Putin abruptly cancelled a trip to the tank enterprise where he worked.
Tuesday, 27 December 2022
Father Christmas Is Back
While my wife and my daughter like this film, I hate it. It was not completely terrible, the chemistry between the characters of Peter and Felix, played by Kris Marshall and Ray Fearon was good. It was also filmed in a beautiful setting.
Otherwise, despite an amazing cast, the acting was over the top on too many occasions and it was directed terribly. I have watched worse films on streaming services, but not too many. The only reason that I can see Netflix having this is to make us appreciate other films.
When it comes to the family, my wife and daughter spent time shopping in Chelmsford, I had taken the dog for a walk and after several walks yesterday and today, she is knackered. My son has a new Pokémon game for the Switch and he is busy playing that right now. It has been a relaxing day which has allowed my batteries to get a much needed recharge.
Monday, 26 December 2022
Eddie Nketiah steps up
First of all, Arsenal. I was nervous about this game, mostly because it was a derby game, and I went to watch it with some friends, one of whom said that we were certain to win. He has predicted a score of 3-1 and he was right about that. We showed resilience to come back from being a goal down, but most importantly, with Gabriel Jesus out injured for at least two months, Eddie Nketiah stepped up. I had hoped that the team would pull together and they did.
Last of all, I have been suspended from Twitter, again. In a recent debate I have stated that I am a misogynist, transphobic and also an against the rights of women because I do not think that anyone with a penis, who is guilty of sexual assault or rape, should be allowed in a female prison. This happened with Karen White, a man pretending to be a TransWoman who had raped two women outside prison and went onto sexually assault two more women when in prison. Hopefully my suspension will not last too long.
Sunday, 25 December 2022
I hate middle lane drivers
My youngest brother was to go over to her, but he tested positive for COVID and so I collected her from London, drove her back to Colchester and in the evening after lunch, drove her back. I was surprised at the numbers of cars on the road and the drive at times was congested, mostly because of my pet hate, middle lane drivers.
Saturday, 24 December 2022
Christmas Eve 2022
Monday, 19 December 2022
Single All The Way
Sunday, 18 December 2022
What a game
What a game. My son was given updates on this by friends and would come downstairs after a goal had been scored. My daughter watched bits, commenting on the good looks of Kylian Mbappe and Emmanuel Macron while she waited for the end as she was to meet up with a friend who is part French.
I was supporting France for several reasons. One was that I have had a soft spot for them since the 1982 finals when a player was knocked out by the West German goal keeper. Also, being an Arsenal fan, there is a French connection thanks to Arsène Wenger, Olivier Giroud being a former player. In addition to that I had France in our sweepstakes at work. Sadly, the game ended as it did in 2006 when I was cheering on France when we were in Italy and France lost, again on penalties.
It is a shame that France had been hit by a virus before the match, but I guess in future, teams may take more precautions against this. Anyway, back to the league soon..
Friday, 16 December 2022
Born in Bethlehem, deported to Rwanda
It is coming up to Christmas, that time of year when we celebrate the birth of Jesus, who fled Israel when his parents saved him from The Massacre of the Innocents. The thing is, when his parents sought asylum in Egypt, they did so illegally, being required to remain so Jesus could be murdered along with others of his age.
Thursday, 15 December 2022
PMQs yesterday and NHS workers striking (or not in Scotland)
PMQs yesterday could have been better. Keir Starmer used the example of one person on his second question but did not mention that strike action may be averted in Scotland where nurses are voting on the pay deal that has been offered to them. If Alex, the person Starmer mentioned in PMQs lived in Scotland, his operation would not be cancelled by strike action, an issue later mentioned by the SNP. Sunak mentioned COVID as being the reason for the NHS waiting lists, Starmer responded with the report the government commissioned which cited a decade of underfunding as a reason for the care backlog. I did not hear Starmer mention how staffing shortages are causing operations to be cancelled especially as Sunak blamed strikes for this.
Eating disorders were mentioned later by Fabian Hamilton, delays in mental health treatment being reported in the media as causing children to be put into care.
Ambulance waiting times were brought up as well and Sunak implied that there were no issues before the pandemic, but the issue of ambulance waits being too long was discussed in Parliament in 2016 and the issue of some patients waiting more than 24 hours for an ambulance was raised by the media in 2018. Issues of patients waiting in ambulances for too long before being handed over to A&E was also discussed before the pandemic, this article being from 2017.
Basically, there is an argument that these strikes are political, though those making the argument are blaming the left. When it comes to NHS workers, the strikes could be stopped, as they have in Scotland, by the government talking to the unions. That they are not, is a political decision because they hope to make Labour look bad over this. I guess those working in the NHS (like me) should be glad that we have been clapped.
Wednesday, 14 December 2022
Prince Harry is a credit to our nation.
My wife and I had a bit of a disagreement about how Harry and Meghan Markle are being portrayed in the media following the Netflix documentary. For the record, I am not going to watch it and have no interest in doing so.
I have commented on the double standards shown to the Duchess of Sussex before. To put it simply, it appears racist when one person who is white is commended for actions that one person who is not white is condemned for the same actions. Such things are not the fault of the rest of the Royal Family, but rather is the fault of the parts of the media that engage in it. The media have not been nice to the Royal Family and action taken about this when their privacy has been intruded upon is right. I understand that The Royal Family cannot comment each time an inaccurate article is published because they would constantly be firefighting. However, they can and should comment when they see racism. The inaction of the Royals to condemn the double standards which many see as racist is inexcusable.
I do not think that King Charles or Prince William would intentionally be racist, but as seen with the recent case with Ngozi Fulani being asked by Lady Susan Hussey where she was really from, people can be unintentionally racist and as seen with Prince Harry when younger, can cause offence. But too many people have been the victims of double standards, an example is how ethnic minority police officers have faced such issues.
There are calls for the Duke and Duchess of Sussex to be stripped of their royal titles, but many of these people are happy for Prince Andrew, the man who did not meet or have sex with a women who had been taken from a state where sex with her would have been considered under age to a nation where sex with her could be legal, to remain a royal. If Prince Andrew is stripped of his titles first, then we can consider the same for the Duke and Duchess of Sussex.
In addition to this, there are people who have claimed that Prince Harry hates Britain. This is a man who has served on the frontline for our nation. If he hated it, he would not have served it, or promoted The Invictus Games after he left. Like all those who love their nation, there will be things that he wants to improve. I consider myself to be patriotic and feel that our nation can and should be better.
Tuesday, 13 December 2022
Meet Cute
First of all, my son is free. He has tested negative and is out of isolation. We consider his room to be high risk and will talk about decontamination measures later this week. He appears to be in a better state of health than my daughter who has recovered from the non-COVID virus that she may have caught from my wife.
Monday, 12 December 2022
The NHS since 2010 and it’s ability to do things now
Sunday, 11 December 2022
The house of ill
My son is still in isolation, my daughter may not be able to attend her Sixth Form College tomorrow and I may be coming down I’ll as well. My wife, though unwell herself appears to be improving. We hope that my daughter has what she has, as opposed to my son, but if she comes down with COVID, the odds are that I will get it, which means either my wife looking after us all, or the end of isolation.
I have been working as I am hoping to be off next week, initially at work, but this was freezing and once I had finished the work that has to completed there, I came home to work from home.
I did get to watch the football from yesterday, well the highlights, and while I think that we should have had some decisions go our way, we played well and can leave the tournament with our heads held high
And it is snowing. It has settled, but when I took Leia for her walk, it was starting to melt. Let us see if she likes playing in the snow when it is daylight.
Saturday, 10 December 2022
The plague, again
My son has contracted COVID again for the third time, bringing it into the house for the second time. One of his friends on his school trip came down with COVID but that was a while ago so he must have escaped that and instead, got it off someone else. I have noticed that with this latest variant, people have symptoms for a few days before testing positive. He is now in his room with unlimited access to Netflix on the iPad of my wife and is in isolation again.
My daughter is not 100%, and my wife herself is on the mend from a cold herself. Other that a minor sore throat, I am fine in myself and have had a nap so that I have the energy for the Christmas Party at work. With no symptoms, I am ready to go!
Friday, 9 December 2022
NHS football comparisons
Another manic day. I was not on call, but helped out a bit, and am still behind on paperwork from my days when I was on call. While catching up on paperwork, I did get to watch the Holland equaliser against Argentina and the penalty shootout.
Before this surge in workload due to Scarlet Fever, working in the NHS could be summed up as playing for England against France with eight players and no subs. Now we are playing against both France and Argentina at the same time. I am lucky to work with a great team, and while we don’t have eight players, I would say we have ten. But there are no subs on the bench. Now with Scarlet Fever, the numbers needing to be seen have doubled.
My MP claims that the NHS is to get better, but it has got worse while the Conservatives in charge, and the reasons are simple, it is not funded properly.
A paramedic who works with us cannot remember a time before 2010 when he had to wait outside A&E to hand over a patient, something that is far too common how. I have had a patient wait hours with a fractured hip before he was taken to A&E, a patient with a possible heart attack giving up and coming to see me the next day due to symptoms. None of this happened between 1997 and 2010 when Labour was in charge of the NHS.
Thursday, 8 December 2022
What a day.
Tuesday and Thursday were nightmare days at work. At least today was not as bad as Tuesday, but on Tuesday, we had antibiotics to treat Strep A. The government have said that there is no shortage of antibiotics, and technically they are right. But there is a shortage of the correct forms of antibiotics needed to treat this. On Tuesday I dealt with one parent who was not able to get penicillin in liquid form. Today, as there is a shortage of amoxicillin which was existed before this public health crisis, I have had to prescribe capsules which had to be broken up so that children could get the treatment they need. The erythromycin liquid that I prescribed on Tuesday was hard to find today as is liquid penicillin. We do have these antibiotics in other forms (tablets and intravenous forms) so when Conservative politicians say that there is no shortage of antibiotics, they are right. But tell that to a parent who cannot find the liquid forms of antibiotics that their child needs.
Wednesday, 7 December 2022
PMQs and PPE (again)
I watched PMQs with my daughter after it had taken place due to work commitments. She was at home as she had an inset day. After Starmer lost the first questions on housing, the issue of PPE came up. Again, I admire the actions of the Conservatives when it came to Nightingale hospitals (though staffing would have been an issue) as well as changes in the law to allow doctors to certify deaths without risking death.
But PPE was a big issue, not just the lack of it despite the findings of Exercise Alice and Exercise Cygnus, but how our nation exported PPE even though we had a huge shortage because those who raised how we could supply our frontline workers were not part of the Chumocracy. Even then, the PPE sourced by those friends of the Conservatives was not up to our standards!
Matt Hancock has appeared to blame frontline workers for bringing COVID into nursing homes, but this would have been less likely to happen if we had decent testing and also PPE.
Tuesday, 6 December 2022
I used to be in a toxic environment. I left it.
Harry and Meghan are in the news again. It is interesting to see aspects of the media who drove them out of the UK continue to berate them.
In 2010, I left a toxic environment to work where I am now, and while I know they wish I could be better, I do know that they appreciate me. The sense of liberation I felt when I left was amazing. I wish the media companies who drove this couple away took a good look at themselves and think on what they did, and how it looks to people affected by racism.
Those of colour of the age of Meghan Markle and those older will all have been treated differently than those who are white in the UK. They know why some papers show double standards.
Monday, 5 December 2022
Are nurses in Scotland valued more than those in England
Nurses and in Scotland are to be offered pay terms more than those in England are being offered and this is significantly less than what the RCN has asked for. Does this mean that SNP politicians in Scotland value nurses more than Conservative politicians in England?
Sunday, 4 December 2022
Fury
Saturday, 3 December 2022
We survived another day
My son and I are still getting on. Cooking today was different as he did not want what I was cooking so made himself some food, my food though was quite nice.
In the morning I went for a walk with Leia which she loved and it appeared to make her tired. I rested afterwards to charge my batteries and finished watching Wednesday with my son. He had fun dressing Leia in a Christmas jumper, I do not think she liked it though!
As for Wednesday, I prefer the Wednesday Addams from the films, but I did grow to like this one as well. Just not as much.
Friday, 2 December 2022
Cooking with my son
Today was another day cooking with my son. My wife and daughter have travelled to Northern Ireland to watch The Cure in concert leaving the two of us together. I know my wife is nervous about leaving the two of us together and I am hoping that her worries amount to nothing. Sadly my cooking was not up to scratch as I put too much salt in it. Oh well, here is hoping that things are better next time.
Thursday, 1 December 2022
Unions (again)
The Conservatives do not like unions. Unions are about ensuring members get to work, they are not in favour of bankruptcies of employers. They are interested in a fair deal for workers and thanks to the laws imposed by the Conservatives, strike action for many industries has more of a mandate than Liz Truss did when she was elected by a few Conservative members!
A huge example of why unions are important is seen with Elon Musk. His actions to employees are disgusting and should not be allowed. I accept that he can get away with this abroad, but thanks to unions, other employers cannot act like this here. Unless they own a ferry company.
Wednesday, 30 November 2022
Cooking and private education
Have been cooking with my son. I order food from Gousto and on most Wednesday’s cook a meal. The rest of the family will cook a second meal most weeks, but it is getting me cooking, and I think, is improving my confidence. Having my son join me was great. It meant
that the food was prepared on time and I hope we continue to do this going forwards.
PMQs was not a major victory for either side this week. Private schools were discussed, specifically the tax breaks that they claim for being charities. They are not, they are businesses and while they may do some charitable work, they should only be able to claim back the money for any bursaries they offer. I disagree with the idea of getting rid of them, but I fail to understand why they get tax breaks which state schools do not.
Tuesday, 29 November 2022
Elon Musk and free speech
Elon Musk has accused Apple of being against free speech. Elon Musk, the man who has banned people from Twitter due to them expressing their rights to free speech, is saying that others are against free speech. Hmm…
Monday, 28 November 2022
Matt Hancock and COVID
First of all, despite the name of the post, my son is back from Switzerland and appeared to have enjoyed himself there visiting The Hadron Collider.
Second, Matt Hancock did not win I’m A Celebrity. There has been renewed controversy over contracts given out for PPE during the COVID pandemic, but I think we should focus on how producers in the UK were ignored an how PPE was exported when we had a shortage in the UK. Jess Phillips took Matt Hancock to task on this in an interview that I should have been shared every day he was in the jungle.
Saturday, 26 November 2022
The Large Hadron Collider
My son has travelled to Switzerland to see this. Sadly he has decided to engage in radio silence and is not communicating with us about how he is. Oh well…
Friday, 25 November 2022
CPR
Yesterday was eventful at work. I saved a life. I know I have done so in my job before but to do so with CPR is different. It was the first time that I have done CPR in over 20 years, but it worked!
Thursday, 24 November 2022
Black Panther: Wakanda Forever
We watched this last night. My wife originally planned to join us but did not feel up to it. A good film, but I am not sure that it is the best plot wise as there were a few minor issues. However it is a film I am looking forwards to watching again when my wife feels up to it.
My daughter was not happy that I had walked past a lady who collapsed on the way to the film, but they had family with them and she was breathing. I did check that an ambulance had been called, it had not and they called after I asked, but she was breathing when we left.
Wednesday, 16 November 2022
PMQs during Anti-Bullying Week
Normally when Angela Rayner is asking questions on behalf of the opposition she is devastating. In fact, I was looking forwards to today and when Dominic Raab referred himself to be investigated for bullying I thought that she had an open goal. But faced with it, she did not make the easy kill and Dominic Raab managed to hold her off.
The SNP fared better, but I did not get to listen to the rest of PMQs today as my daughter had friends round. I may get time to listen to the rest of it tomorrow.
Both my mother and mother-in-law rang me to get the children to talk to them, both on my way back to the house. I cannot force the children to talk to them and I can only imagine how painful it is for them. We did have a bit of an idea when last week, one gave us the silent treatment, my wife for most of it and me for a bit. We did try to talk about it today, but other than being told that we were over half the reason for the stress that child faced, we were not told how. We both hope to find out later this week.
Tuesday, 15 November 2022
Holidate
The family splits appear to be healing. It is too early to say this for certain, but things appear to be improving. We are not where we want to be, but we are in a better place than this time last week when the silence was upon us.
In fact, we watched Holidate as a family. My wife and I had forgotten that we watched this last year but quickly realised that we had. And we still enjoyed it. Both children watched most of it this time. I guess, when it comes to a RomCom, the plot, most of the time is similar, and here, the core of the plot was. But while the destination was predictable, the journey there was fun to watch. Not sure that I would go out of my way to watch it for a third time, but I would be happy to watch it again if it was on TV.
Monday, 14 November 2022
On the plus side, we are top of the league
First of all, family. It has been a hard week and a harder weekend, but I am hoping things are changing. Really hard, but as my wife pointed out, things could be worse. Hopefully things are getting better, at least they did for about half of the day.
On another positive note, Arsenal won. I did not realise that we were playing on Saturday as I assumed that we would be playing on Sunday. I also did not realise, until watching Match of the Day, that Arsenal have one of the better defensive records in the league. Watching how we gave chances away to Wolves, I find that hard to believe, but it is true. I just hope that we do not collapse after the World Cup though. But we go into it top of the league!
Wednesday, 9 November 2022
Sir Gavin Williamson
While many were outraged at the way Gavin Williamson had acted towards a Conservative whip, I was not too bothered with this, especially with the way Conservative whips acted in the last big vote of the Liz Truss Premiership. I should actually refer to allegations as no improper behaviour was proven on a later investigation.
I did think he should resign over the allegations over how he treated civil servants, and he did. Watching The Thick Of It with my daughter, again for me, I get the impression that bullying is, or was common in the past, and many of us remember how Priti Patel got away with allegations of bullying herself. I myself had engaged in bullying behaviour when I worked in our local hospital about twenty years ago, behaviour which I now accept was wrong. Well some of it. However I do not recall telling someone to jump out of a window, or to slit their throat and while I did promise to hit someone, that was when they refused to listen to me when I had explained why I had done something and instead decided to berate me without accepting what I did was right.
PMQs was interesting with a question about people who received a fix penalty notice due to Partygate being made Lords. Starmer won again, his first question being about bullying and while Sunak gave a nice response, he did not answer the first question. Sunak was honest stating that he regretted the appointment of Williamson into his role, but then was silly saying his government is in favour of accountability while sitting next to Suella Braverman! Sunak did not answer the third question about thanking Williamson for his service. The next question about the Windfall tax which Labour had called for (though Labour wanted a better one) was not answered, Starmer answering it for him in the preamble to he fifth question on how the Windfall tax should be changed. The final question mentioned how the Conservatives crashed the economy in its build up, but was wasted as it asked what chance the Prime Minister had of running the country. Sunak answered referring to Jeremy Corbyn who would have been a much better Prime Minister than any of the three we have had in this Parliament.
I was to go to bed before watching the SNP’s Ian Blackford answer his questions. Normally he asks the best questions of the session, he fell far short today.
Tuesday, 8 November 2022
Qatar2022 vs Russia2018
In 2018, Russia had an appalling human rights record. Political opponents were being killed (as is still happening now), it had assassinated people abroad and of course invaded Ukraine four years before along with destroying MH17. LGBTQ rights in Russia are also oppressed.
Monday, 7 November 2022
Terminator: Dark Fate
On more positive news, we are top of the league again. It is unusual for Match of the Day to show the league leaders far down the running order, but there were more exciting games yesterday. I honestly had expected to lose and was hoping for a draw. Facing Aubameyang against us, I felt that he would score, but he did not and I hope his poor form continues.
Sunday, 6 November 2022
See How They Run
First of all, allegations that I was found asleep on the floor last night were unfounded. One member of he family was a bit worse for wear though as a result of alcohol, that obviously not being me. We collected Leia and had breakfast at The Red Dog before returning home. Fortunately today was a day where we did not do much but recharged our batteries. We all started to watch See How They Run at the suggestion of my son, but my wife had to leave to rest as she felt unwell and my son frustratingly left later as well.
Overall, it was an enjoyable film, though I do want to watch The Mousetrap, well part of me does. My daughter enjoyed it as well, though it appears that I was the only one who did not use the internet to find out who the murderer was!
I was wrong though, the American did not do it,
Saturday, 5 November 2022
Enola Holmes 2
Yesterday we watched Enola Holmes 2. When I say we, I mean all of us other then my son who is watching a new series which is available now and so opted not to watch this. Leia watched most of it before watching his series.
I have to say, I prefer this film to the original, and it is not often I prefer a sequel. Yes, some of it was a bit too unbelievable but over all it was a good film with a bit of history thrown in as well. I imagine that there will be many who will object to the diversity shown in the film who will be willing to accept the other parts of the film which were not as realistic as it could have been as well.
It had a decent plot, good acting and was directed well. If you liked the original, the odds are that you will like this more.
As for today, we have been at a wedding of two good friends. It was lovely to watch them tie the knot and we all wish them the best for the years to come. It was also great to meet their family, some of whom we have met before, others we met for the first time, though one person we met was convinced they had met one of us before.
I have tried to nap as we are to go to the dance later tonight, but the fireworks are keeping me up. Am looking forwards to strutting my stuff on the dance floor!